Though we may love the fact that we don’t have to get our children up at the crack of dawn and can hang out all day in our pj’s if we want, the normal routine we have set up for our children during the school year is interrupted. When our children are out of their routine, sometimes chaos can takeover.
It’s safe to say that many children thrive on the predictability of a routine. During the school week, our children wake up at a certain hour, attend school, come home, complete homework, eat dinner, bathe and finally get to bed.
The schedule for the weekend can be less structured but it’s only for a day or two. Holiday breaks can last upwards to two weeks. Yikes! Not having the usual routine, can leave children feeling a bit anxious, chaotic, and overwhelmed.
3 Tips to Survive the Holiday Break
School Assignments Over Vacation
Elementary children may not have much schoolwork assigned over their vacation but the older the child, the more work they will get from school. Be mindful of the long-term assignments that were given in early December and are due during the month of January.
You may be met with some resistance from your kids, but if you help them to “chunk” the work into small segments each day, your child will see that completing the task is attainable. Sometimes a simple reminder helps such as, “Doing your homework will only take the same amount of time it takes for one favorite television show.”
Create Structure for New Toy Play
Many children can hyper focus on their shiny new toys. How many of us can say that our kids could sit in front of a video game for hours?
Just like you will set up a time management plan for school assignments, incorporate time slots for your children to play with their new toys. Each new toys gets ample attention and overwhelm is kept at bay.
Maintain the Normal Nighttime Routine
If you enforce the usual bedtime and nighttime rituals during vacation, the transition back to school will be easier. Naturally, the children will want to stay up much later because they are on vacation, but if you allow every night to be a late one, the children’s transition back to their school routine will be difficult.
Holiday break is about enjoying family, planning fun activities, and relaxing. However, ensuring that you spend your days as close to your usual routine as possible will not only help your children, but as the parent, you will feel more in control.
Structure helps children feel safe and reduces anxiety, ultimately making for a great vacation.